Phenomenal Fathers: part 6

My sisters and I celebrate what each of us has. My brothers also do the same for each other. And because we all see what we have, which is everything, there is no desire at all to get what somebody else has. There is a deep understanding rooted in the belief that God WILL provide, so it seems dumb to go looking for something in a fellow human and most of all take it away from them. In this land, because of the wisdom that is so powerful as though it's in the air, and though we've never seen a fool, we understand the concept of foolishness and we don’t want any associations with it.

If I come back to our present earth, filled with death of so many things in so many ways, for me, having kids is something in my prayer list especially because I’m at the age medics say it gets harder to have kids, there’s increased risk of chromosomal abnormalities for the child, risk of miscarriage, higher chance of

C-section, higher risk of pregnancy complications. Then there are these fibroids, that are occupying my baby’s in vitro nursery, that can also play their part in that story. BUT In the land of no death, disease or infertility, conception is easy, the pregnancy is even easier. 

No complications, no risks, BP is perfect, legs not swollen, no constipation, I sleep better and better as the bump grows. I’m more energetic with each trimester. My skin is so bright, the animals tend to come and hang around me a lot, I don’t know why, even insects like moth’s. I don’t know why. The labour. Because everywhere is safe, I’ve never had any of my sisters say or wish that their water doesn't break in an awkward place. In this land there is no awkward place. There is also nothing like privacy because in this land there is nothing like perversion anyway. When they hear you going into labour because you said so and not screamed so, the go in to preparation for the celebration. So they're busy, no one is looking.

The children are excited so they're jumping around because they know they will have another young one in their midst. They're not curious to see what happens because they understand what happens. The wisdom they have even at that age, satisfactorily fulfils their curiosity. God made it that way. The midwife who I should really call the mid husband is the one who delivers the baby. The natural wisdom he has that God has given him enables him to deliver a baby.

In this land there are no healthcare professionals because everyone is given wisdom for everything they will go through, which is a whole bunch of beautiful things. Remember there is no death or disease, so there's no risk of complications during delivery both to mom and baby. So the baby will be fine and in any case the husband will have the knowledge of how to cut the placenta and all those things that are required post delivery like skin to skin touch. He will definitely not faint! He is not squeamish. Non of the men are.

None of the men believe in gender roles. No man believes they shouldn't wipe their own baby after birth, bathe and feed their own baby. The nurturing that God as the father gives to his children, has trickled down to the fathers and they are phenomenal fathers naturally. When they talk to God their Father, which they regularly do, the phenomenal-ness becomes exponential. The children grow up so loving and so whole, lacking nothing. Living in the presence of their father and Father, does that to them.

The result is they use their free will to make good choices. So they also don't bully, they are whole beings full of love. They love each other so well. There is no pressure on the young ones, they are given freedom to be who God designed them to be. Like I said before love doesn't push, doesn't manipulate, doesn't coerce and definitely doesn't dictate or provoke. The parents are experts in showing their children Godly love. The children are experts of receiving Godly love.

The labour is pain free because pain is something that is never felt in this land which also means there is nothing like period cramps. If there is no pain, no disease, it means there is nothing like healing. So after delivery there's nothing to heal from. The body was made to bounce back instantly. Which means the hormones went back in line and there's nothing like post natal depression, because there's no disease here.

Because the body was created perfectly even the baby feeds perfectly, sleeps perfectly, sleeps through the night. But in this land there's no pressure with time. So the baby can sleep all through the night or they can sleep through the day and it is not a problem. The baby latches on when breastfeeding, there is no nipple pain, there's no bleeding in the nipples, because in this land there is no health issue whatsoever.

The baby grows healthy and strong because again there is no health issue whatsoever in this land. There's a lot of love around. There is no baby proofing required because everything is safe, including all the animals including my tiger. There is no book to be read when we are learning especially colours. We use my animals, fruit and vegetation. When we are learning patterns, lines and shapes I'll bring my tiger, my neighbours cheetah, my other neighbours zebra, and my other neighbours to tortoise.  The baby likes to crawl so he'll end up crawling to South Africa, and my family in South Africa know to bring the baby back to be fed and it's not a bother to them.

The next day the baby was seen crawling to Mexico, I say seen because it's my neighbour who told me they saw the baby crawling there. As we are talking a white dove lands on me, I've never seen him before, but he communicates that the baby crawled to Cancun, my other family there are playing with him and they'll bring him back. When it's bedtime I decide the baby needs something relaxing and soothing before he sleeps.

“Lord, your baby crawled to South Africa yesterday and crawled to Cancun today, would you tell him a bedtime story after all his crawling activities.” I'm not complaining I am just giving Jesus the 411 on his baby, not that he doesn't know but I like to include Jesus in my day-to-day goings. The minute Jesus carries the baby the baby is asleep! Jesus tells the baby the story anyway. When Jesus is done I take the baby and put him in his Moses basket. I don't know why it has Uncle Moses name, but the baby loves the basket and he loves uncle Moses too. Everyone loves Uncle Moses in this land.

Soon after, with no problem at all, because there is no problem in this land, the mid husband delivers my daughter, and its a marvellous experience, because the joys from my son are the same but now in girl version. The babies grow up, we are a family of love, peace and joy because we live in a land of love, peace and joy. The teens love to include us in their decisions, they love to hang out with us, they love to explore the earth with us. They have a good time when they go on their own with their friends. They've been to South Pole, they’ve been to Iceland, they've been to New Zealand all on their own (because its safe), in fact they stayed for three months and when they came back had so many stories, they spoke for 10 years.

My daughter had also gone to Japan with Joseph, Hananiah, Azariah and Mishael. She said they had a blast. My son went with aunty Deborah and aunty Jael to Ethiopia, and he came back with good aim. He knows how to drive a tent peg into concrete with precision such that there are no huge cracks around the point of entry. He also hung out with auntie Dorcas, who taught him how to knit and he knits fabulously.

It doesn't stop there... TBC